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We welcome disagreement, lived experience, nuance and the occasional “I see it differently.” Keep it about the topic, not another commenter’s worth.

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Comments are reviewed before publication. We may remove or decline submissions that break these guidelines. Use a nickname if you prefer; do not include information you would not want displayed publicly.